1996 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Washington D.C. ©Gary
Barg
And then she came before us. She took her
position on the stage as in life, with
confidence. She stood there, with the great
stone figure of Lincoln behind her, facing the
inspiration of the Washington Monument, which
could only be built when the citizens of this
nation pulled together for its common cause.
Before her, loomed the Capitol, where people who
could affect her very survival worked each day
and probably never knew until now that she
existed. And she faced us, a vast sea of
twinkling lights. The strength of her commitment
and the power in her presentation defied her
age, her frailty. “I am the face of AIDS. I am
living with the HIV virus.” Her name is
Precious, and she is four years old.
As Precious spoke, it occurred to me that
while she was looking down at thousands of
candles held high, she saw more than just the
candles. She saw you and me and my mom and every
person who dares to care for any person with any
illness, in any pain. For her, the sea of light
was the warmth and brightness of those who care,
as much as it was a sea of remembrance for those
who need our care. The tears we shed did not
wash away the flame. Instead, it grew into the
brighter light of encompassing love and
unification within the masses that stood
listening to the words of the tiny figure before
us.
Beyond Precious, I could see Lincoln’s strong
and benevolent face. I wondered if he understood
how the Union he loved so dearly could stand by
in silence for so long. Did he understand why
the people of his nation did nothing as their
children, their sons and daughters, died of
AIDS? Did it break his heart, as it breaks the
hearts of those who do care, those who do fight,
those who won’t give up? When Precious ended her
speech, I looked again into the face of Lincoln,
and I could swear I saw a tear roll down his
cheek.