By Kate Shuman, Staff Writer
As a
caregiver, it’s important for you to help your loved one carefully pace
their re-entry back into the physical world. Your loved one may have
high expectations of what their physical abilities should be at the
moment; that’s not to say that over time their physical abilities won’t
improve. It’s best for your loved one to realize what they would like to
do in the way of physical activities, by first looking at what they
want to do, then they need to ask what it is they can do and
what they are willing to do. Finally, they need to know how
they might do a certain activity or hobby. With wheelchair accessibility
becoming available in more and more public recreation areas, there are
many more activities to choose from, so by carefully researching your
loved one’s interests and options, you’ll both help to create a better
experience the first time out.
Among
the many rewards that come from being involved with recreational
activities and hobbies is the increase of self-esteem given to both the
caregiver and their loved one. Also, your loved one, over time, will
feel more willing to take chances and able to tolerate stress better.
Loved ones can also receive immediate, positive feedback from
accomplishing a desired task or activity. By our loved one going out
into the community, the general public becomes familiar with them,
associating them with their sport or activity, rather than with their
disability. In turn, this helps to increase public awareness and
acceptance of those with physical disabilities, allowing them to be
included in whatever activities they so desire. Returning to the
physical world doesn’t have to be impossible, but instead, it can be a
brand new adventure for caregiver and loved one alike, creating a
tremendously powerful and personal experience for both of you, bringing
you even closer to one another, further strengthening and solidifying
the impenetrable bond of caregiver and loved one.