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Welcome to CareNotes. In this special section we will feature a reader's letter and provide an opportunity for an interactive exchange that will help find some answers and possible solutions to concerns. If you wish to respond to this letter, simple follow the link provided at the end of the letter and add your comments and thoughts to our CareNotes Board.

This Week's Carenote - 10/21/09
I am 62 and totally disabled. Can my wife/caregiver be paid by anyone to stay at home and take care of me?

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Name: Bette
Location: Delaware County, PA
Date: 10/21/2009
Time: 10:10 AM


If you contact your county's Area Agency on Aging (for age 60+),you can ask for a FREE assessment to see if you qualify for free or low-cost services. They may have a caregiver's program, which may provide a small stipend. Or you may qualify for a program in which an aid would come in for several hours a week, to take care of some of the things your wife may have difficulty in handling. They will also provide you with lists of resourecs in your community.

Name: Melissa
Location: St. Augustine
Date: 10/21/2009
Time: 10:45 AM


I am interested in the same inforation about my mom. She cares for my 89 year old Grandmother. I would also like to know if she can be paid somehow.

Date: 10/22/2009
Time: 07:19 AM


You may want to look into applying for Veteran's aid and attendance if you are a veteran. You don't have to be receiving your medical treatment from VA to apply. Its worth the effort. Contact a local veterans service officer to see if you qualify. Many people miss out on this benefit.

Name: Ruth Jordan
Location: Western NC
Date: 10/22/2009
Time: 07:49 AM


I agree with Bette. I have a few contacts in my area that provide grant monies to caregiver of individuals with memory problems. Although that is not the concern you possed, I think that there would be similiar monies out there. I would also suggest contacting any national or local organizations that work with individuals such as yourself.

Name: Carol
Location: Atlanta, Ga
Date: 10/22/2009
Time: 10:26 AM


I have a disabled adult son that I am caring for. Up until recently I have been on a program that paid me to care for him, instead of having an aid come to our home. I was just advised yesterday that the state will no longer allow family members to be paid to do this. This is a shame, this service was very helpful to us, now I don't know what we are going to do. I had quit my job to get on this program.

Date: 10/23/2009
Time: 01:37 PM


Caregivers sometimes do Free Homecare Services for an exchange of Room and Board to include meals. However,this is for a personal discussion with a caregiver you have in mind. Schedules,time, case etc. are some of the topics you have to share to obtain a mutually beneficial relationship.



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