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From Anna Marie in CT
I transferred my mom from a nursing facility to an
assisted living with dementia/Alzheimer’s unit on Monday.
The worse nightmare was the discharge process. I had given
them a week’s notice. Going to the new place (be forewarned)
needed a lot of items in place: her loaner tilt in space
wheelchair; partial electric bed and scoop mattress. The old
place was going to do the ordering, but failed and dragged
their heels. So the new place took over. And I hired a
patient advocate. Plus I had to hire a 24/7 aid, which is
working well so far. My cost is slightly less and I'm hoping
for better care for my mom in a more home-like, lovely
setting. But I am providing most things for her room.
Discharging from the old place was awful due to a social
worker who was clueless. I had to throw a diva tantrum (I am
a singer) and finally had an administrative nurse get the
paperwork finished. There was no need for an ambulance
service to come. The caregiver agency put her in his car,
which in Mom’s case, the doctor was fine with. So speak up
and stand your ground! It's hard enough making the decision
to not take Mom/Dad home without uncalled for problems with
the medical system.
From Annie in Missouri
I had a board made as a removable seat
for a walker. It fits across the two braces for the sides
and has a "lip" on each end, just long enough to drop down
over the side braces and the depth is the same as the sides
(from front to back) as the walker. The person I care for
cannot step into the walker, but it provides a seat when
he's tired and a spot for meals when he's sitting on the bed
or a TV tray for snacks. A rule of the house is the
WALKER MUST ALWAYS BE IN FRONT OF HIM, WHETHER HE'S SITTING
OR STANDING. Having it in front of him acts as a prompt to
use it, rather than have him totter or fall.
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