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From Dave in NH
My sisters and I realized not too long ago that Mom's
legs were beginning to give her trouble. We were able to
convince her to have a stair lift installed since she lives
on the second floor above my oldest sister. She understood
it would minimize the possibility of a fall and keep her in
the home. Not long after, we noticed she might need a cane
for stability. The introduction of the cane did not go over
as well. She insisted she did not need "one of those
things." Several months went by as the cane stood in the
corner at the bottom of the stairs, looking as new as the
day it was purchased. In October, our family rented a house
on a lake in Maine which Mom loved. The house had sliding
glass doors leading onto a second floor deck overlooking the
lake. The nights with the family by the campfire were
priceless for her, but the trek back to the deck and up the
stairs was not. My sisters and I noticed Mom had found a
strong stick that she would use to assist her, along with
one of us, at night's end. I wondered why she would use a
stick from the woods, but not a cane. Then I thought maybe
because it seems more natural--hikers use walking sticks,
not canes. My wife and I made a trip to a small country
store in town and purchased a natural wooden cane (oops,
walking stick) with a slight curl at the top and a small
rubber cup on the bottom. Problem solved; she thought the
walking stick was beautiful! I believe she associated the
cane with all it represents. The handcrafted walking stick,
complete with knots and bark, seems okay. The bottom line is
she is using it.
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