MW:
I started this foundation right after my diagnosis,
because I kept hearing about all the money being
raised all over the world to find a cure, and I was
finding out that a lot of that money wasn’t really
going to cures; it was going to the salaries and
buildings and monuments of people rather than curing
the disease. I wanted to start a foundation where
100 percent of the money donated and earmarked for
research to find a cure went exactly there. So, the
Montel Williams MS Foundation was established to
find a cure, educate the public on the disease, and
once we find a cure, see if we can provide
medication to those who can’t afford it. To
date, we’ve given about a million dollars to some of
the top hospitals around the world. Two of the
projects that we’re very, very proud of are at the
Karolinska Institute of Stockholm, Sweden. One is
being conducted by Dr. Tomas Olsen, for having found
two of the genes that seem to not only be the
catalyst for MS, but for rheumatoid arthritis and
for a heart malady. We also have a doctor who is
working on a stem cell project. They have actually
created spinal cord tissue, and if that’s true, the
implications four or five years from now could be
profound when it comes to MS or other illnesses
where there’s damage being done to the spinal cord
or brain matter. We’ve also helped in the
development of what now may be the first blood test
for MS.
GB: What would be the one piece
of advice you’d like family caregivers to take from
this interview?
MW:
Caregivers have to understand that God blesses you
for what you do, but if you don’t stop every now and
then to take care of yourself, you won’t do any good
for anybody because the person you’re taking care of
won’t be able to absorb your humanity or your spirit
if you’re depressed, if you yourself are tired, if
you aren’t paying attention to your own personal
health. The one thing that I think is really
important for all caregivers to understand is that
every now and then, it goes back to that thought of
being honest with the person and building an honest
relationship with that person, not be afraid to
speak without offending. There may come a moment
when you have to tell your friend that I love you,
but I need a little break, and I bet you could use a
little break from me too, so let me take one and
I’ll see you in a few hours or in a few days. Take a
break, rather than let it fester and damage your
relationship.