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By Eric Gnezda
While his transformation was remarkable, it is
not unique among those who have battled – or who are
battling – serious illness. Three days after I
was born, my father was diagnosed with multiple
sclerosis, so I grew up caregiving. Based upon those
experiences and from working with others since, it
is clear that the ones we care for often have a
wealth of wisdom to share about fundamental
priorities and the essence of living. And
while their “lessons” have always been available to
us, it seems that now, in the midst of our culture
having been forever changed by emerging kinds of
anxiety and terror, the guidance that patients and
loved ones can offer in terms of how to deal with
fear and uncertainty has become immediately relevant
to us all, not only as caregivers but as citizens at
large.
Caregiving teaches us that, however serious a
crisis may be, it can be an invitation to grow in
our understanding of and our appreciation for our
lives, our loves and our values, all of which take
on greater meaning in today’s world.
“Redefinition, renaissance and rebirth are the
essence of life,” wrote a cancer patient in her
journal. “Status quo is not possible. Not even
desirable. No one has a safety zone to hide in.
Somehow, before all of this, I believed that I did.”
Although written about her struggle with a serious
disease, these words could have come from any
American in the last many months. “In this battle,”
she concluded, “we all learn to take each day and
cherish it.”
Wise words – for caregivers, and for everyone,
these days.
Eric Gnezda is a keynote
speaker, songwriter and humorist who presents to
corporations, associations and healthcare
organizations across the country. His songs,
including, Blossoms of Hope, are often featured by
cancer, hospice and bereavement groups.
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