Thursday May 11,  2006, Issue #274

 

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From The Editor


 

Diagnosis Neurosis

Talk about an embarrassment  of riches, in a recent phone conversation, one of my relatives living right here in South Florida was discussing her problems with a healthcare challenge, not that she wasn’t able to find a diagnosis, but that there were actually too many diagnoses.

She was told that she is losing bone mass due to a thyroid condition that was discovered in a recent examination.  The solution was clear to the surgeon: operate. The solution was clear to the endocrinologist: do NOT operate, take Fosomax and vitamin D.  To a leading thyroid expert, the solution was, by all means STOP taking vitamin D.  And to make matters murkier, a new test result just came back saying that she may not actually have the thyroid problem that was previously diagnosed. 

This would be a funny Marx brother sketch if not for the fact that this is someone I greatly care about and these are all leading doctors in their fields.  My first thought was to let her primary doctor sort it out, but he is a cardiac specialist and does seem to be able to take sides in the battle of the diagnoses.  So I thought I would go to the real experts and ask you if you have ever run into this quagmire and how you were able to sort through the murk.  

Cutting through the murk

How many doctors does it take to…?

Happy Mothers day to you and all of your loved ones.

 
 

Take care
Gary Barg

Editor-in-Chief
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Feature Article

Emotional Issues of Breast Cancer
by Hillary Wright, Staff Writer

When a loved one is diagnosed with breast cancer, she will experience a wide-range of feelings and emotions....Continued


Additional Articles::

Empty Refrigerators Could Equal Poor Health for Seniors
By Jennifer B. Buckley

If you are caring for an elderly loved-one, consider keeping their refrigerator well stocked to keep them healthy. Sounds strange? ...Continued


When Guilt Comes Knocking
By Kate Murphy, RN

Goodness, isn't that a familiar word? You would think that mature rational adults like us would be above feeling "guilt" about the emotions our care giving can evoke.....Continued

 

Guest Column

Bathing Sparky
By Gwendolyn deGeest,  RN, BSN, MA

Peter was 13 when he had his first dog, 18 when he worked in the lumber camps, and 20 when he married...Continued


Caretips

Bathing a Loved One
By Ryan Mackey

When a loved one loses the ability to bathe and maintain themselves, proper hygiene becomes especially important...Continued


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Carenotes

I am presently caring for the husband from whom I've been separated for three years. He underwent a liver transplant on 3/8 and is now home after 7 weeks in the hospital-having had many complications. He has no one else - no family - we have no children but I feel responsible for him and do love him although there is no chance of a reconciliation.

I thought I could handle this - but now that I'm in the midst of it, I'm not sure how I can hang in there until he can be on his own. His recovery is very slow. I'm juggling taking care of him, visiting my apt. on occasion to see my cats/pick up mail, etc., all the paperwork involved, as well as trying to get to my job as often as I can. Luckily, I have a very sympathetic boss and a long-term job.

My husband seems to be doing everything the doctors tell him not to. When I point it out, he gets annoyed with me so I've stopped. I can't take his constant impatience with me and I'm continually going into the bathroom to cry.

I'm not sure what I expect from this post - I guess I'm having a small "pity party" for myself and want company. But, I would be interested in anyone who has cared for an ex-spouse and how they handled the stress and heartache is brings.
 

M

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Inside This Issue:

From the Editor
Diagnosis Neurosis
Feature Article
Emotional Issues of
Breast Cancer
 
Guest Column
Bathing Sparky
CareTips
Carenotes


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